I am a relationship philosopher
Many people have asked what I meant when I wrote in that little box on my facebook page that I am a relationship philosopher. Well it means that I seem to have some sort of perspective on relationships that people have been asking me questions about them for the last 10 or so years.
People were asking me what to do in a relationship before I had ever even been in a relationship. I guess I partially just understand people's situations. I think people like to talk to me about these things specifically because I will gladly listen. I also think that it helps that I am very understanding of just about everything. In all reality I don't know why people have been asking me about these things for so long. I know sometimes when having problems it just helps to talk about it even if you don't get feedback just talking about it or writing about it can help, which is actually the reason that I started this blog entry today.
I guess I will just lay out my current situation. I have been on a few dates with a girl. I really like her, we have a ton in common by far more than anyone I have dated before. I know in the beginning we had mutual feelings. We used to text a lot and chat once in a while. We didnt get a chance to actually spend time together that much which is kinda lame, we have somewhat conflicting schedules. She just isnt contacting me as much and I don't know how to take it. Right now I am really not stressing, whatever happens happens I kind of just want to know where we stand. From my perspective we have had amazing conversation each time we have spent time together. It has been pretty much a nonstop conversation. I really like that.
The way it is right now I would just like to know how she feels. If she is still interested then great! but if she isnt, I dont want to be spending my time just waiting on that. I just wish people would be more straightforward about this stuff. I realize it might be an unreasonable thing to ask. Its very possible she doesn't know how she feels, I can respect that I have been there. Right now it just feel like I am in limbo and I really do not like that feeling. I wish it were much easier to discuss this topic. Its not like my feelings will be hurt much if she is not interested anymore. I just want to know where I stand. I also wish I could just stop thinking about it and be aloof but that is just not how my mind seems to work. I am writing this down partially because I am hoping it will get it out of my head. I just want to not think about it.
Whichever way it goes is fine, but I just dont want to worry right now.
I am really looking forward to the start of baseball season. I love having stats to come home and look at every night. And watching the highlights on Sportscenter when I can. I guess I will just have to be patient and wait for that to start :) I think I can handle that.
So long for now.
Peter
People were asking me what to do in a relationship before I had ever even been in a relationship. I guess I partially just understand people's situations. I think people like to talk to me about these things specifically because I will gladly listen. I also think that it helps that I am very understanding of just about everything. In all reality I don't know why people have been asking me about these things for so long. I know sometimes when having problems it just helps to talk about it even if you don't get feedback just talking about it or writing about it can help, which is actually the reason that I started this blog entry today.
I guess I will just lay out my current situation. I have been on a few dates with a girl. I really like her, we have a ton in common by far more than anyone I have dated before. I know in the beginning we had mutual feelings. We used to text a lot and chat once in a while. We didnt get a chance to actually spend time together that much which is kinda lame, we have somewhat conflicting schedules. She just isnt contacting me as much and I don't know how to take it. Right now I am really not stressing, whatever happens happens I kind of just want to know where we stand. From my perspective we have had amazing conversation each time we have spent time together. It has been pretty much a nonstop conversation. I really like that.
The way it is right now I would just like to know how she feels. If she is still interested then great! but if she isnt, I dont want to be spending my time just waiting on that. I just wish people would be more straightforward about this stuff. I realize it might be an unreasonable thing to ask. Its very possible she doesn't know how she feels, I can respect that I have been there. Right now it just feel like I am in limbo and I really do not like that feeling. I wish it were much easier to discuss this topic. Its not like my feelings will be hurt much if she is not interested anymore. I just want to know where I stand. I also wish I could just stop thinking about it and be aloof but that is just not how my mind seems to work. I am writing this down partially because I am hoping it will get it out of my head. I just want to not think about it.
Whichever way it goes is fine, but I just dont want to worry right now.
I am really looking forward to the start of baseball season. I love having stats to come home and look at every night. And watching the highlights on Sportscenter when I can. I guess I will just have to be patient and wait for that to start :) I think I can handle that.
So long for now.
Peter
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